Women are naturally built to be protective and it is not their fault, they know how vulnerable they are emotionally.
A man can walk to any woman he finds desirable and does all he can to woo her, but this is not the same for a woman, even if she likes you, she has to pretend she doesn’t and this is not because she doesn’t like you, she’s just being careful. They actually see every relationship as a big risk they are about to take and so must watch where they lick.
Men, on the other hand, see it as fun and expect women to act same and so this is why they get confused when women pretend as if they are not interested only to see you with another woman and they get offended.
This is because she expects you to read in between the lines which you don’t know how to do and here are 12 easy ways you can spot that she’s just playing hard to get but she likes you.
1. She Acts Cold And Hot At The Same Time
So you’re with her and one time she’s all sweet, friendly and flirty and you feel you’ve won the war and try to reciprocate then out of the blue, she retracts and acts cold towards and it makes you feel like giving up. That’s where you got it all wrong. She doesn’t want to feel cheap and so expects you to chase her too and so this is the point you don’t give up for her to build that for you.
2. She Quickly Replies Your Message
If after all the cold treatment, she doesn’t put your messages on waiting, then know that she likes you and is actually looking forward to your messages and it is a sign that, she likes you and want to always hear from you.
3. She Agrees To Your Invitations
If she doesn’t like you, she will give you some of the most outrageous excuses you’ve never heard in your life but when she likes you and even pretends she doesn’t, the moment you invite her to a movie, she will take all the risk to be there and will not turn down the invitation and that’s a clear sign she really likes you and wants you to keep pushing.
4. She Pays Attention To Her Looks
When you invite her and she steps out, you’re mesmerised because she looks so gorgeous. That’s because she pays attention to her looks when she’s with you and that’s a clear sign she really loves you, don’t give up.
5. She Makes Meaningful Conversation
When you having a conversation with her, she doesn’t say superficial things just to throw you off like how was the match yesterday or do you have movies you can give me or can you send me mobile money etc. She actually lets you in on her personal life by going deep to tell you things she hates and loves and how she wants her man to behave, those kinds of deep things which should give you a hint that she’s interested and doesn’t want you to stop chasing her.
She actually lets you in on her personal life by going deep to tell you things she hates and loves and how she wants her man to behave, those kinds of deep things which should give you a hint that she’s interested and doesn’t want you to stop chasing her.
6. She Playfully Teases You
If she often playfully teases you, it means she loves your company and getting comfortable with you and expect you to move forward.
7. She Gets Offended When You Don’t Reach Out
At a point you probably think she’s not interested and so you try to draw out but then when you stopped calling her for just a day, she gets offended and gets back to you questioning why you didn’t get back to her, that’s a clear sign she loves your reaching out to her and she doesn’t want it to stop.
8. Vague Responses
She gives you vague responses when you try to know how she feels towards you. You are likely to get responses like, “I don’t know oh?!”. When she does this, she’s just acting mysterious to see whether you will dig deeper into her life.
9. She Avoids The Main Topic
When you propose, she pretends it is not something she wants to hear and tries to avoid the topic entirely. This is where most men think she’s not interested and probably tries to look elsewhere but that’s a way of women trying to take the time to swing you a bit. She might finally say Yes, but she wouldn’t want it to come out just like that.
10. Tells You She Misses You
You can turn down your invite and may not talk much with you but will call you and tell you she misses you. This is not to put you in misery, this is to tell you to do something.
11. She Jovially Wants To Know If You Miss Her
When you don’t call her for some time, she calls back and jovially wants to know if you’ve not missed her, don’t take it as a joke, she really wants to be sure you’ve not missed her.
12. She Really Plays Hard To Get
This the point where she can openly tell you no she’s not interested when you propose to her but then will not also allow you to date any girl. She makes it look as if she’s not ready to be with you but she’s always with you to make sure nobody takes her spot, that’s what it means. Now, this is a sign she wants you to chase her more so she can build that trust in you.